We are very often asked by students “what does a butler wear”?
According to Emily Post*, “in the morning the butler would wear an ordinary suit—black or very dark blue—with a dark, inconspicuous tie. For luncheon or earlier, if he is on duty at the door, he wears black trousers, with grey stripes, a double-breasted, high-cut, black waistcoat, and black swallowtail coat without satin on the reverse, a white stiff-bosomed shirt with standing collar, and a black four-in-hand tie. In the evening, at 6.00 pm, he would put on a slightly different version of evening dress (either black tie or white tie) to his employer.”
This constant changing of clothing would certainly not be considered productive, nor achievable, in today’s busy world.
So what does the contemporary Australian butler wear?
This is of course the decision of the employer.
For men, generally a well cut, dark, conservative suit is acceptable, with white or other pale coloured, plain shirt and elegant but conservative tie. Shoes should be closed lace up style, black, highly polished, well heeled, comfortable and silent.
For women, a well cut, dark coloured business suit with white or other pale coloured, plain shirt, is preferable. Shoes should be dark, low heeled, comfortable and silent. Versions of traditional male butler apparel adapted for women do not generally achieve the sophistication required.
Vests worn with shirts can be a smart alternative to a jacket for less formal wear. Accessories should be limited and understated. It is not often that the butler is still required to wear white gloves during service. He may, however, carry gloves with him and certainly always a service cloth.
Some households prefer their butler to appear in less formal attire. This is especially the case, for example, at the employers’ beach house or if the employer sees Australia as a place where less formal dress regulations apply and therefore both he and the butler have the opportunity to dress in a more relaxed fashion.
Appropriate dress for this situation may include polo shirt and chinos (or even shorts in summer) with a change to more formal attire if the family is entertaining.
*Emily Post, American doyenne of etiquette and manners for many decades, following publication of her 1922 best seller, Etiquette in Society, in Business, in Politics, and at Home
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